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Bear (77) looking for Cub Chandler, Arizona, United States

I'm a 68 yo GWM new to the lifestyle. I am on a journey finding my sexual self. I have been widowed for 5 years and it was then my journey began. I am learning as I go and enjoying every bit.

Want to chat--that's fine. Want to take it further, let's see where it goes. I honest to a fault, loyal, romantic and adventurous. I'll try most things at least twice.

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Sex Preferences

I preferBottom / Versatile
I'm aBear, Chub, Silver Daddy
DemeanorMasculine
OutOnly close friends know
HIV StatusNegative

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageItalian
BuildHeavyset
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBald
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairFull beard
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionDiabetes
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyHospitality / Travel
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI'll know when I find him.
Our first dateCoffee or lunch and a lot of conversation. Second date gets really good.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isBottom
I am seekingFriendship
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Fisting, Mummification, Sensory deprivation, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasI don't kiss and tell. :-)

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Blood, Scat, Children, permanent marks, permanent injury.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want to try it all. Other than mentioned above I am open for everything.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Moving car, Bleachers of a stadium

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Pain level:Light Marks