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Dream Catcher

Cub (53) looking for Bear Manhattan, New York, United States

I am a 53 year old GWM living in Manhattan. I am an urban spirit with a European sensibility. I relocated to NY from London two years ago. I have done a considerable amount of inner work and feel ready for partnership. I am not looking to hook up for sex, but rather seeking a man to complement me within the confines of monogomous relationship that is long term oriented and based upon clear channels of communication and that is mutually supportive and nurturing.

I have a strong physical attraction to hairy men. I am the opposite with a naturally smooth fit body. I am 5ft 10in; 168 lbs; considered handsome with silver hair and blue eyes. I find authenticity, vulnerability, intelligence, and the capacity to be compassionate and empathetic to be a major turn on. I am seeking a connection with a man who is unafraid to venture below the surface and reveal his deepest essence. I like creating a safe space with another man for authenticity, vulnerability, and honesty to exist where we can each be a pillar for one another to incubate our respective dreams, passions, and vision.

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferVersatile
I'm aCub
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusPositive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchthe demonstration of his word.
Our first dateProlonged eye contact while smiling at each other.

Sexual Activities

Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
"Off Limits":Anything that is not mutually consentual.